An aunt who’s now an immigrant in the US told my sister that people in the US prefer not to marry but just live together without any contract binding them because divorce is too costly. Instead of thinking twice before tying the knot to make sure if the person they’re marrying is really the one they’ll stick to till the end, they’d rather not get married. Then I wonder how come I’ve noticed there are many kababayans and other nationalities who are married to American men. Does it mean that marrying foreigners especially Asians give American men more sense of security than marrying their own race?
Anyway, though in our Asian culture we don’t tolerate divorce, there are instances when it’s really needed. Like if the husband or wife is hurting his or her spouse and also the kids which put their lives in danger, if one isn’t responsible enough, etc.
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